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Hi, there. Lately I've reached a place where my sex life is difficult because I'm significantly less interested in sex than superheroine peril. I don't want to engage in the fantasy myself, I just like to watch it and otherwise fantasize about it. But also, I don't want to drift away from my partner because I'm not interested in the play. Have any of you been in this situation and are willing to talk about how you got through it?

Well Step 1 is to not gauge all of your relationships success by how much sex you're having. An active sex life could be an indicator of a healthy relationship......... or can be the only thing holding together a bad one. It isn't the end all and be all of love and companionship, it's just one element of it. If your marriage is still trucking along mostly normally, you've already had plenty of kids (or not variable on your shared wants and desires) then you just aren't having as much sex anymore and that may just be the natural result of living long enough? Find other things to do with each other that you both like to do? Go to dinner, see a play, head to the park for a round of frisbee golf... idk, you do you. Once you start doing other things together you might even find yourselves having more sex again.

If the opportunity arises opening up with your partner about your fetish CAN lead to a healthier relationship but 9/10 times alas, your partner just isn't going to be interested enough in it to do any kind of roleplay with you EVEN if they ultimately understand and accept it.

Step 2 is not letting your fetish usurp your entire life. A fetish can be like a drug if you let it. Its fine to partake of it and enjoy from time to time, when you have free personal time etc, but if you find yourself spending more than half your days ignoring your partner and family to browse superheroine porn on the internet... the solution is probably to step away from the pc or phone more often and enjoy some of the other things about existence. That's easier for some people than others I understand, but for sure, there's stuff out there you'll find shared enjoyment of if you go looking for it and like I said above... if you're out and about doing things together you may find yourselves having more sex again as a byproduct.

i had a girlfriend who understood my interests and would often comment on her bending a lamppost irl when we saw it. it made for an interesting sex life to the point she adopted a persona so we'd know it was on

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3 years ago

Hi, there. Lately I've reached a place where my sex life is difficult because I'm significantly less interested in sex than superheroine peril. I don't want to engage in the fantasy myself, I just like to watch it and otherwise fantasize about it. But also, I don't want to drift away from my partner because I'm not interested in the play. Have any of you been in this situation and are willing to talk about how you got through it?

Any reason you don't want to actually role-play in real life?

Porn addiction is real and if you consume a lot of porn without finding ways to explore it in your personal life you risk destroying your relationship.

I would recommend going through therapy and finding ways to connect what excites you into your actual relationship, as with the limited information provided here it sounds like you are heading in a bad direction

Femina and others stated it very well: Take a break for a bit from Superheroine peril. It will always be around. It is definitely easier said than done, but if you can take some time off or at the very least find a balance, you will probably be better off in the long run with your partner.

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3 years ago

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3 years ago

Hi, there. Lately I've reached a place where my sex life is difficult because I'm significantly less interested in sex than superheroine peril. I don't want to engage in the fantasy myself, I just like to watch it and otherwise fantasize about it. But also, I don't want to drift away from my partner because I'm not interested in the play. Have any of you been in this situation and are willing to talk about how you got through it?

Any reason you don't want to actually role-play in real life?

Porn addiction is real and if you consume a lot of porn without finding ways to explore it in your personal life you risk destroying your relationship.

I would recommend going through therapy and finding ways to connect what excites you into your actual relationship, as with the limited information provided here it sounds like you are heading in a bad direction

Because it turns out I've been living vicariously through the heroine for my entire life. I am a sub. Lol, I've figured out a lot of stuff since I posted here and completely forgot. Now if only dominant women were common.

Bleed your superheroine fetish into your bedroom, slowly. As long as you put her needs ahead of yours I bet she'll love it.

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1 year ago

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3 years ago

superbia19872 wrote: ↑

3 years ago

Hi, there. Lately I've reached a place where my sex life is difficult because I'm significantly less interested in sex than superheroine peril. I don't want to engage in the fantasy myself, I just like to watch it and otherwise fantasize about it. But also, I don't want to drift away from my partner because I'm not interested in the play. Have any of you been in this situation and are willing to talk about how you got through it?

Any reason you don't want to actually role-play in real life?

Porn addiction is real and if you consume a lot of porn without finding ways to explore it in your personal life you risk destroying your relationship.

I would recommend going through therapy and finding ways to connect what excites you into your actual relationship, as with the limited information provided here it sounds like you are heading in a bad direction

Because it turns out I've been living vicariously through the heroine for my entire life. I am a sub. Lol, I've figured out a lot of stuff since I posted here and completely forgot. Now if only dominant women were common.

I know tons of dominant women, so they seem common to me
Glad you got to the bottom of it, hope that it pushes you in the right direction

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3 years ago

Hi, there. Lately I've reached a place where my sex life is difficult because I'm significantly less interested in sex than superheroine peril. I don't want to engage in the fantasy myself, I just like to watch it and otherwise fantasize about it. But also, I don't want to drift away from my partner because I'm not interested in the play. Have any of you been in this situation and are willing to talk about how you got through it?best sex dolls

Hey, and thanks for opening up—what you’re going through is more common than you might think. It’s actually not unusual for people to develop a strong preference or fixation on a specific fantasy, especially one like superheroine peril that combines themes of drama, power dynamics, and vulnerability. These kinds of fantasies can feel very compelling, sometimes even more so than “typical” sex, and that can definitely affect your libido in other contexts.

Since you mentioned that you don't like to participate in the roleplay yourself, do you think it would help your intimacy if you talked with your partner about either watching SHIP porn together as a type of foreplay or having it playing in the background during sex? Another idea is have you tried watching some SHIP privately before you know you're going to have sex with your partner? (I'm sure a lot of sex for you is spontaneous, but maybe sometimes you kinda know it's coming in advance.) I'm wondering if watching even a few minutes of a SHIP video you like would give you the stimulation you enjoy before engaging with your partner? If none of this applies, then I think the suggestion to step away for awhile is a good one.

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1 year ago

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Ok, how did this post show up at the top?

I think watching porn as foreplay is a good option, and also for more relaxation and enjoyment during sex, music and scenting can be added, which I believe will help with partner intimacy. I believe this will help in intimacy with your partner, because that's what I usually do myself.

Sex this thing, in fact, need to stop, if often easy to get, then lost interest, if you can, to maintain the frequency of 1-2 times a week, I believe that this will enhance your intimacy.

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1 year ago

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1 year ago

Since you mentioned that you don't like to participate in the roleplay yourself, do you think it would help your intimacy if you talked with your partner about either watching SHIP porn together as a type of foreplay or having it playing in the background during sex? Another idea is have you tried watching some SHIP privately before you know you're going to have sex with your partner? (I'm sure a lot of sex for you is spontaneous, but maybe sometimes you kinda know it's coming in advance.) I'm wondering if watching even a few minutes of a SHIP video you like would give you the stimulation you enjoy before engaging with your partner? If none of this applies, then I think the suggestion to step away for awhile is a good one.cheap sex dolls

Ok, how did this post show up at the top?

I think watching porn as foreplay is a good option, and also for more relaxation and enjoyment during sex, music and scenting can be added, which I believe will help with partner intimacy. I believe this will help in intimacy with your partner, because that's what I usually do myself.

Sex this thing, in fact, need to stop, if often easy to get, then lost interest, if you can, to maintain the frequency of 1-2 times a week, I believe that this will enhance your intimacy.

Haha, no idea. I've been on a whole ass roller coaster since I posted this. The short of it is that I finally met with the fact that I just don't like intercourse and I never have. We are a poly couple and every other aspect of our relationship is great. I just don't like sex at all. It's gross, messy, and boring. Kissing is weird and I don't enjoy it. It's ok sometimes, i guess. I fought this for my entire life because it seemed wrong and biology does its thing but it only led to misery. I'm not interested in having sex. Heroine peril fantasy has always excited me far more than any sexual content and I've never truly had a fantasy of my own that was actually sexual in nature. It's just not for me. So she has another boyfriend and a NB partner who do enjoy sex and we have a cute home with the sweetest pets and all the movie cuddles that I always wanted and I don't ever have to dick anyone down just to keep the peace in my home.

If anyone out there is like me. You're autosexual. You're unusual, but it's really not that weird, there's nothing wrong with you, and there are relationship structures which can work for you. You can stop putting your peepee in gross holes that you don't want to fuck with for the sake of stupid conformity. Your self esteem will be grateful when you stop trying to force yourself to be good at something you neither like nor understand.

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1 year ago

Since you mentioned that you don't like to participate in the roleplay yourself, do you think it would help your intimacy if you talked with your partner about either watching SHIP porn together as a type of foreplay or having it playing in the background during sex? Another idea is have you tried watching some SHIP privately before you know you're going to have sex with your partner? (I'm sure a lot of sex for you is spontaneous, but maybe sometimes you kinda know it's coming in advance.) I'm wondering if watching even a few minutes of a SHIP video you like would give you the stimulation you enjoy before engaging with your partner? If none of this applies, then I think the suggestion to step away for awhile is a good one.

Haha, thanks. It turns out sex is stupid and I'm just not interested.

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1 year ago

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3 years ago

Hi, there. Lately I've reached a place where my sex life is difficult because I'm significantly less interested in sex than superheroine peril. I don't want to engage in the fantasy myself, I just like to watch it and otherwise fantasize about it. But also, I don't want to drift away from my partner because I'm not interested in the play. Have any of you been in this situation and are willing to talk about how you got through it?best sex dolls

Hey, and thanks for opening up—what you’re going through is more common than you might think. It’s actually not unusual for people to develop a strong preference or fixation on a specific fantasy, especially one like superheroine peril that combines themes of drama, power dynamics, and vulnerability. These kinds of fantasies can feel very compelling, sometimes even more so than “typical” sex, and that can definitely affect your libido in other contexts.

Indeed. I stopped being alarmed the day I realized that my sexuality has always and exclusively expressed itself this way and that nothing bad is going to happen to me if I'm just not interested in having sexual relationships. My partner can fuck her other partners. Polyamory is really just the best thing for autosexuality.

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10 months ago

When I string up fairy lights in the living room, the eflects in her eyes just right. Sometimes I catch myself looking at her instead of the lights.

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