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Help needed for our new members
Posted: Sun Dec 14, 2025 2:04 pm
by Malice
Hello,
I was recently contacted by PowerMILF, who mentioned having issues posting on the forum. Is there any way to lift the block for her at your earliest convenience?
Also, is it possible to brainstorm a friendlier way to welcome new members to the forum?
I understand the need to prevent spam, but perhaps we could create a form to assess the validity of new registrations. For example, new members could explain why they are joining, what their intentions are, and how they learned about the site. This could be done without requesting personal information, while helping to separate genuine members from potential bots.
PowerMILF does not seem like a bot, and even if she were, she presents herself very convincingly as human.
Moving forward, it would be great if genuine members could post freely and join discussions without being blocked by a system that is not functioning as intended. Spam is still present, though less than before, but a difficult registration process might discourage new contributors.
This is not a complaint, just a suggestion to make the forum more welcoming.
Re: Help needed for our new members
Posted: Mon Dec 15, 2025 4:17 pm
by hpibd
I appreciate that you put thought into this, however I doubt a form as you describe would be effective. Who or what will have to validate the form?
With potentially 10s of users registering every day surely this can't be done manually, and letting a bot review them sets you up of all sorts of unforeseen issues.
Besides, depending on what this form would ask a new user I'm very sure every basic bot can just fill in nonsense or filler text and bypass this anti-spam measure enteriley.
I agree that this site needs to take action against this flood of code-based conquerers, but this form idea has a lot of flaws. Perhaps there is some sort of Captcha module/plugin/addon-thing that can be added to the site, which requires new users (and hopefully only the meat-filled ones) to solve it?
Thank you for drawing attention to this issue though.
Re: Help needed for our new members
Posted: Mon Dec 15, 2025 4:37 pm
by Void
I think the best solution to this is to have more, or more active, mods for the site so the wait for a first post to be reviewed is shorter. I think new members needing their first post reviewed makes a lot of sense - recent events have made that very clear - but that process may be a bit broken if it takes days or weeks before a mod is able to get to it.
I agree it's an issue. The last thing we need is to be turning away new members in a community that seems to be dwindling as it is.
Re: Help needed for our new members
Posted: Mon Dec 15, 2025 6:23 pm
by Malice
Void wrote: β6 months ago
I think the best solution to this is to have more, or more active, mods for the site so the wait for a first post to be reviewed is shorter. I think new members needing their first post reviewed makes a lot of sense - recent events have made that very clear - but that process may be a bit broken if it takes days or weeks before a mod is able to get to it.
I agree it's an issue. The last thing we need is to be turning away new members in a community that seems to be dwindling as it is.
It'd be nice, just sayin'...
hpibd wrote: β6 months ago
I appreciate that you put thought into this, however I doubt a form as you describe would be effective. Who or what will have to validate the form?
With potentially 10s of users registering every day surely this can't be done manually, and letting a bot review them sets you up of all sorts of unforeseen issues.
Besides, depending on what this form would ask a new user I'm very sure every basic bot can just fill in nonsense or filler text and bypass this anti-spam measure enteriley.
I agree that this site needs to take action against this flood of code-based conquerers, but this form idea has a lot of flaws. Perhaps there is some sort of Captcha module/plugin/addon-thing that can be added to the site, which requires new users (and hopefully only the meat-filled ones) to solve it?
Thank you for drawing attention to this issue though.
I don't have the answers, only ideas, and yes, most of them are shoite. That's why it takes time for me to write anything.
Appreciate the discourse, I go fast on my own but we can go further together!

Re: Help needed for our new members
Posted: Mon Dec 29, 2025 6:52 pm
by Malice
Hey there,
Quick follow-up: some of the new members,
the real ones, are feeling a bit demoralized by the current situation.
Would it be possible for someone with admin permissions to look into allowing them to post?
Totally get the need to fight spam, but itβd be a shame to end up pushing genuine people away in the process.

Re: Help needed for our new members
Posted: Mon Dec 29, 2025 9:47 pm
by MightyHypnotic
I need more information.
I checked out the PowerMilf account but I don't see where they have posted and if that post is in the new member queue.
The way it works, if you recall , is the first post will be held for review to make sure the user is not a bot or spammer. After that, they can post at will.
I haven't heard from this person since so I am wondering if they weren't a bot after all.
Re: Help needed for our new members
Posted: Tue Dec 30, 2025 8:10 am
by Malice
MightyHypnotic wrote: β5 months ago
I need more information.
I checked out the PowerMilf account but I don't see where they have posted and if that post is in the new member queue.
The way it works, if you recall , is the first post will be held for review to make sure the user is not a bot or spammer. After that, they can post at will.
I haven't heard from this person since so I am wondering if they weren't a bot after all.
I totally understand but bots are usually not that clever, and usually don't respond to mail, they normally invite us to buy property in places that don't exist or provide links to proper scams....
I too had to contact you guys at the time to be able to post if I remember well. Was totally worth it, and I felt very welcome once it was all said and done, but I can recall feeling a little discouraged like PowerMilf at the time.
I mean if this is indeed a bot, I think it deserves a spot.
